Tips for the journey
Physical Safety: The physical safety of the environment is critical to well-being and quality of life. Risk of falling, nutritional status and personal care needs should be evaluated.
Emotional Needs: While older adults may be limited in their decision-making capacity, their psychological needs exist and should be considered.
Explore All Options: As we approach the end of our lives there are many viable options to consider. Keep an open mind and explore all options.
Open Communication: Families should have discussions, or family meetings, in which feelings are discussed openly. Remember, everyone wants what is best for Mom and Dad.
Be Realistic: Keep in mind the issues of physical safety and emotional needs, and develop a plan that works best for everyone.
Plan Early: Begin thinking early on about the time when independence will no longer be possible. Figuring out what to do in an emergency is difficult whereas planning ahead allows time to thoughtfully evaluate options and plan accordingly.
Get Help: Professionals who are experts in the field of aging can help you negotiate this unfamiliar terrain. Community programs and services are available to help older and disabled adults.